by Michael | Feb 12, 2025 | First steps
The other day, I had a familiar conversation with an individual whose life has been turned upside down and whose marriage is hanging by a thread because of their abusive behavior. “I know I have some issues to work on. I want to, I really do! It’s just hard!” they...
by Michael | Jan 15, 2025 | The Change Journey
“I don’t understand,” Liz complained. “Several people close to me have told me they’ve noticed big improvements in how I manage my emotions. Nevertheless, my partner keeps telling me that I’m no better than before. Why can’t he see my growth?” Brad nodded his head...
by Michael | Dec 11, 2024 | Problem areas
We all have our moments. Life throws curveballs, and it’s natural to feel irritable or down from time to time. But when crabbiness or moodiness becomes a regular part of our personality, it doesn’t just affect us—it affects those closest to us, especially our...
by Michael | Nov 15, 2024 | Relationship skills
“I want a partner to take care of me,” Brenda said on one of our group calls. “If I’m feeling bad, they should cheer me up. Or when I get overwhelmed by too much to do, they should step in and take some of the load off me. And if choose to work – fine – but I...
by Michael | Oct 15, 2024 | Domestic Violence - General
“My husband and I have been separated for a year because he was physically and emotionally abusive. Since then, I know he’s been working on changing—going to counseling, taking classes, etc. Even though my friends and family think it’s a terrible idea, I miss him and...
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